Being present! When my dad was taken to the hospital toward the end of his life, something happen that gave us all comfort. My uncle Dean and Aunt Pauline came everyday, stayed in the waiting room and waited with us. They were just present. It was amazing how much comfort that gave us. I have had the great pleasure to experience that. Yesterday when I had the cancer removed ,many people came and just waited. Some I didn't even get the chances to see but all of them gave me and my family great comfort. Being present makes all the difference. I just knew I wasn't alone and when the recover nurse and Doctor both said there is a lot of people here to see me. They had a wide Eyed expression but I just got a warm feeling. I am loved. Sometimes in the past when people I know have been in the hospital I would think what am I going to say ,they won't even know or I have just been to selfish to be present and just not show up. I will now try to always be present.
Kicked that cancer to the curb and not letting it into the lymph nodes praise God .....I am blessed
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